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Know Your Source.  But Also Ask Questions

Know Your Source.  But Also Ask Questions

Just this past weekend I had an encounter that made me really remember what to do when you receive recommendations from someone – know your source!  And, ask questions! I ran into a friend at a wine store this past Friday.  It was terrific to see him.  In fact, it was genuinely good to catch up.  We have known each other a long time and he and his wife are extremely worldly. While I’m asking about his wife and children, he leans over toward the wine racks and grabs a bottle of wine.  He holds it up and shoves it over toward me.  Next he volunteers that it is a great bottle of white wine.  But, better yet, he tells me what a great deal it is for the price.  He pronounced the name with a French accent, making it sound really great.  I was convinced that I had to try it! Never mind that I really don’t even like white wine.  I listened to a friend, took the advice, bought the wine, got home and opened it up.  After one taste, surprise, surprise, it is not to my liking.

Don’t ASSUME – Know the Source!

What was I thinking?  I knew better!  But, because I know the source and was friends with him, I assumed the wine would be good.  I should have asked some questions, like, “Is it a dry white wine?”  “Would you call it minerally?”  “What about sweet?” Without asking questions, and without knowing whether the answers appealed to me, I took the advice of a friend.  Wine is a definite personal preference kind of purchase.  Just like what to see in Paris is a personal preference.  Unlike one bottle of inexpensive wine, making choices in Paris is much more consequential.  You may not be back.  And you will have wasted precious time in the most beautiful city on earth. Friends, guidebooks, and online resources will have suggestions for what to do in Paris.  Of course, some things in Paris are “must sees.”  But beyond those, who cares what someone else likes if you aren’t interested in it? Don’t assume that if your friend likes it, you will like it.  And, rather than fall for the flashy, descriptive and well-advertised, take a step back and ask yourself, “What do I like?”  “What is going to make me happy?”  “What do I want to see and learn about?”

It Is Your Trip

You are the one spending the money and taking the time off work to see Paris.  Figure out what makes you happy – historic buildings, shopping, monuments, museums of paintings, sculptures, gardens, walking the streets, or maybe it is watching movies in the hotel room. Then, take a look at, or a listen to, recommendations and suggestions.  Understand and know your source.  Next, ask questions.  Then, really listen to the answers.  After that, determine if the suggestion fits in with what you like to do.   Everything is available in Paris.  So, don’t fret about lack of choices.  Just make sure it is what you want to do. Want to know where PariswithScott is coming from?  Take a look here and feel free to ask as many questions as you like.
Your Paris Library

Your Paris Library

Paris is one of the most visited and beloved places in the world, and because of that, there are MANY books about Paris.  Lots of people have written about Paris and continue to write about it.  They make movies with Paris in a starring role that have luscious scenery and breathtaking views.  Lucky for us!  That means we get to read old favorites and brand new titles coming out each year, plus watch the newest films shot on location in Paris.  Fun For All Of Us!

Together with histories and nonfiction accounts, publishers keep turning out historical fiction, thrillers, mysteries, picture books, children’s books, guide books, cookbooks, best of books, garden books and even shopping books and guides.  Books have always been, and still are, a sure way to transport you to another world and they do the same for Paris.  They are the perfect way to explore Paris before going so you can learn more about what you like and what you do not like.  Remember, it is important to narrow your focus to what you love and what really interests you.  That is important so that you can create your Paris List and have the best trip to Paris possible.

Narrow Your Focus in Advance

In order to figure out what you want to see, one website, guidebook or history is not enough.  Paris is so diverse that you should consult multiple sources in order to get a feel for the monument, museum or neighborhood that may spark your interest.  Each author has a different perspective and each offers a different insight.  And, you may learn something from one book that you would never find out from another book.

My “Paris Library” contains some of all types of books.  It contains a range, from little mini books on bistros to oversize coffee table books.  Each one has a particular appeal.  Some are so specific that they would be unhelpful to the casual Paris visitor.  But, since I write about Paris, I need some pretty specific books to help with some of the articles that I write.

To help you begin your initial armchair journey to Paris, I have reviewed my library and propose some books for your pleasure.  You probably only need a few to really make a difference in your life.  And by making a difference, I mean providing information and photos to get you really excited about going there, providing information to make informed decisions on what will meet your expectations, and providing a way to have a great traveling experience even at your home through photos, writing and recipes.

I find these books are especially helpful, with plenty of information. They are books that I find myself returning to time and again for the great resources and reference. But also, because they conjure the feelings of Paris.

Guidebooks

It would not be impossible to visit Paris without a guidebook, but….  You may have a few questions before, during and after your trip and a guidebook could provide the answer.  Plus, they are fun to read and pretty much essential for preparing your Paris List.

More info here: Guidebooks for Paris

Fiction

To be able to write like Balzac!  Or Victor Hugo???  What about Ernest Hemingway???  Each novel takes us deep into Paris.  And, who doesn’t like to sit on the edge of the seat waiting for what comes next in mysteries and thrillers?  A car wreck, Soviet spies, snipers – and set in PARIS!

Nonfiction

Like most nonfiction, we can learn more than we really want to know about the real goings on in the past.  From the bedraggled pauvres that are the subject of one of the longest running Broadway plays, to the daily rituals of Louis XIV, these books illustrate the reality of the past and present.

Photo Books

Nothing is quite like sitting with a photo book and getting a bird’s eye view or seeing oversize full-page photos of Paris.  One image can make your heart leap!  So many try to publish books that capture the City of Light, but some seem to do it better than others.

Garden Books

Well, if you want to admire beauty up close and personal, garden books can set you straight.  The grand gardens, the little pocket parks, the areas surrounding monuments that would not necessarily be called gardens.  Each one is elegant and thought out beyond what we can imagine.  Formal, wild, vegetable, preserve – you name the garden type and you can find it in Paris.

Cookbooks

Cookbooks are a great way to learn about the food that you may see on a restaurant menu.  Not that you have to learn the name of every French dish in French, but being familiar with some of the names can help ease you into your culinary experiences in Paris.

Children’s Books

What joy to read a children’s book and see characters come to life with caricature drawings – and then – see them in real life.  Children’s books are just as fun for adults and really dig deep into the French mindset preparing and exciting the whole family.

Movies

Dancing like Gene Kelly across the screen is about as wonderful and magical as you can get!!!!  Audrey Hepburn takes on Paris in her own way and everyone knows The da Vinci Code!  Images of Paris, style, culture, glamor – all rolled up in these movies.  Movies are pure entertainment.